An effective Handshake is much more crucial than it appears. Business, corporates, countries are built upon these. It’s been scientifically proven that Handshakes help release the body hormone Oxytocin which helps establish trust. While a good Handshake may appear easy, there are certain dos and don’ts that are best followed in order to make a good and lasting impression.
- Know when to extend a Handshake
Handshakes are common during introductions. There are commonly seen during job interviews, meetings or even casual settings. Extending a Handshake shows good etiquettes so it’s always recommend to initialise one.
- Understand the grib
Make sure your palms are clean and dry before offering or responding to a Handshake. No one likes sweaty or oily palms. Remember to hold your palm straight and not slanting. Once the grip is made clasp the other person’s hand firmly without being bone crushing or even worse, limp. Shake their hands once or twice – no more, no less.
- Duration of a Handshake
An average Handshakes lasts between 2 to 5 seconds. Any lesser is as good as none, while any longer is plain awkward.
- Your left hand
Simple though this may sound, your left hand matters during your handshake. Do not pocket this as it appears defensive and too casual. Don’t use your left hand to touch the other person’s shoulder or add on to the handshake unless you know them personally.
- Your general body language
Always remember to stand up during the Handshake and make eye contact. Handshakes are typically accompanied with the greeting or the farewell – mostly both.